Starting over again!

Break up is a bad word.

Emotional trauma, self doubt, pain and anger, low self esteem.... are a part of a break up. Well, happens to everyone. The one you gave everything to decided to ditch you and walk away. So why bother? It's time to start afresh with a twist of happiness. You deserve it because you are an awesome person. Steps you can follow to feel better: 

1. Think about the break up. Think about the guy. Think about all the shit he gave you. Now, do you think its worth calling him, texting him, etc? He doesn't even deserve your ultra nice treatment. STOP BEING NICE. STOP CALLING HIM AND KEEPING IN TOUCH. Its a waste of time.

2. Now that you can't call him and you need to keep yourself busy start doing something.This may include - talking to a friend, watching tv shows, movies, reading, anything.

3. Get a new hobby! It may something you've never thought of doing before. Give it a shot! Try something different and it may surprise you that you love doing it. Basically give your love to something else. 

4. Exercise. Skip the chocolates and pastries! Work out. It'll help you gain confidence and feel good about yourself. 

5. Get yourself the best and sexiest clothes and shoes. Now put on some make up, call your girlfriends and go out on an all girls day out. Party a lot, flirt and smile. Talk about cute guys. Your guy was a jerk. :D There are sooooooooo many hotter and cuter guys. 

6. These are just a few things. If you're the introvert then start writing a diary, read your books, catch up on the latest editions of your favourite magazine. Basically give yourself an opportunity to do things that you haven't done. Discover yourself! 

7. Take a bubble bath. Get a spa appointment. Get yourself a manicure and pedicure. Look hot :)

8. Music. And I mean not the LOVE songs. The party songs. Dance songs, motivating songs, trance, house, jazz anything. Ditch the meaningful love songs that you and your love always listened to.

9. Gifts and cards to be kept aside. You dont need them. It's over and you're glad its over. 

10. Spend time with people who are positive and happy in life. You need to maintain a positive attitude. 

11. Start talking to someone who understands you. Both of you can make a list of all the things you want to do and go do it! You must've always wanted to go and have lunch at a particualr place but haven't gotten the chance yet. So go do it. 

12. It's your life. Live it when you have it! If the thought of suiciding EVER came to your mind. Visit a psychiatrist or counsellor. You need help. A guy or girl cannot determine whether you live or not.

13. Give it time. You need to be patient! Time heals all wounds.

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